David,

Yes us women can be difficult.... and very emotional or like Ginny said at a time like this we try not to be , at least in my case too . I only cried when I 1st heard the diagnosis, and a very few times alone after . now after treatment somtimes I have my bad days and everyone now says why be upset "its gone" but as you said Maybe its never gone forever just for now. And I tell them I am entitled to my bad days , because that is how we get through it . And I must say david you are a wonderful inspiration and to me a tower of strength and you show us all we can make it through ..one day at a time ......