You can only push so hard and far. Everyone in the end is responsible for their own decisions and the consequences of those that they make. We all are the architects of our own destiny. If the most that you can do is be supportive of her decisions, than that is the role you will be delegated to play. With cancers in general, there isn't time to change plans mid stream. I hope for the best possible outcome for your mom.

Brian, stage 4 oral cancer survivor. OCF Founder and Director. The first responsibility of a leader is to define reality. The last is to say thank you. In between, the leader is a servant.