Odd way of thinking? Don't you mean the new normal? At least for events. I have the opposite thoughts about purchases, treating them like events I have been making more purchases that I put off, figuring if I don't buy them now, then I won't get my fair use out them (I keep shirts 20 years and things until they break) This is not odd, this is realistic now that we have been forced to face our mortality
Donna, good luck on those lumps, I know what you are thinking when you go to the Brandon winter fair - next time I may not be so lucky. Even now, trying to learn how to swallow, I have to make radiation appointments for cyber knife or else they think the cancer will come back and take my voice box. True that nobody knows about that errant car, but a better analogy is that we who have Oral cancer need to watch out for a maniac driver who definitely is looking to run us over

Of course, you and I could just be crazy but as the Fleetwood Mac song goes: Nothing I didn't already know,
Charm