Like everyone else it sounds like you need to see someone else.
In the UK we have a charity with qualified nurses called the Macmillan nurses. They are always around the hospitals and cancer patients. They can help with pain, advice, maybe help to get through to doctors as well as help with the social care side of things. I tried to look on the internet for an equivalent in the US but couldn't find anything. Maybe your GP or consultant knows of something like that near you?
Girlfriend to Martin 49 years old at diagnosis
Diagnosed with SCC unknown primary June 2008.
Cancer found in single node Stage N2A (3 to 6cm).
Tonsilectomy 16th june, Radical modified neck dissection left side 30th june.
30 TX radiotherapy ended 9th October
First comparative study scan came back clear
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