Patty,
You got it. AFter losing my husband to brain cancer when I was
24-and now at 56- a 2 year survivor of oral cancer myself, my motto
is "if you are not in the hospital or terminally ill or not in jail for some reason, then you can fix everything else" It sounds so crude but it is true. Now I have never been in jail yet and I hope never, but it's bound to be the same as the hospital.
Let's go fishing when we can, laugh when we can, and try to remember not to be so serious about the small stuff.

Let's try to keep reminding each other because it is HARD to
remember.
Debbie