[quote]finally i think we need a real oncologist someone who truly cares and knows what he is doing. Any references to such doctors in India especially in banglore is highly appreciated.[/quote]
There have been several people here who either have been treated in India or have had family members who were -- I've seen references to treatment in New Delhi (at a specialty cancer hospital there), Chennai and Hyderabad. If you go to the search box in the upper right of each page and type in India, you'll find many of them -- screen names include Dileep, chilled_fire, Seema, Kum71, Marma, Ramamurthy and Kavita. I'm sure there are more.

Once you're on a posting, click on the name and choose "View profile" -- you can get the poster's e-mail address and write him or her directly.

(An aside: We lived in Bangalore in the mid-1990s. I would love to go back and see how it has changed!)