I would put comfortable shoes and undergarments ahead of the cake. Probably # 2 after the groom. Of course you will need that dress and someone to perform the ceremony.

Good luck with SK. you have made a wise choice, if only for your peace of mind.

SCC stage II Partial mandibulectomy w. neck dissection- July 2005. Renal cancer w. partial nephrectomy-Jan 2004. Breast cancer discovered in routine mammogram. Successful lumpectomy, sentinal nodes clear, RT only-2008 Reconstruction of mandible w fibula free flap-Jan 09. TORS removal of begnin pappiloma from esophagus-2010. Masectomy,rt breast 2013.
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