I forgot to mention one thing....as far as alternative medicines...I'm afraid they don't exist. I see a nutritionist and I think he gives me tips on just making my body a healthier place. As far as curing cancer...no way. I wish. But doing that makes me feel like I am doing something for meself. I eat better and exercise and take vitamins and hopefully that helps my immune system. But cancer is all about our own makeup and body chemistry. Why did it happen to me? I don't smoke or drink heavily. It just is. Having a positive attitude is very important and it seems you already have that. Does your Dad? How is he handling all of this?