Brenda, You are a wonderful caregiver for your husband. My husband was great while taking care of me, also. I was the one doing all of the research, however. It scared the heck out of me. Please remember to take good care of yourself while taking care of him. BTW Caregivers have ribbon colors, also. They are plum colored. smile

DX 6/05 Rt Tonsil SSC advanced to lymph node. Stage 4b. RND, took tonsils, strips off the back of tongue, throat and nose. 19 lymph nodes removed only 1 bad. Once healed, 7 weeks of treatment including 35 IMRT, 7 Cisplatin, 7 Erbitux and 35 nasty Amophostine. Almost 11 yrs out now. Woooo Hoooo!