Carol,
It would be a pretty small group! I would check with the hospital social worker, then try the support groups page in the newspaper. You might find some "rogue" H&N patients or survivors in the mix. I have also advised my head & neck surgeon that I am willing to work with patients one on one but after 6 years, I haven't had any takers. I do work with patients directly from time to time - just not from the hospital where I was treated. It could be a risk management issue or they wish to promote their own in-house therapy. Other than the first (and probably last) OCF Las Vegas reunion, I have run into maybe 6 OC survivors in the past 6 years just out and about.