Hello Arthur,
Let me be the first to welcome you to OCF. You have found a great resource for what you're facing now with your diagnosis. There is TON of information already to be found within these pages, and of course there are lots of us here for you when you have other questions you can't find answers to. We're all here to help and support. Welcome....
-Steve

Age 41 - Stage 2 SCC tongue Dx 2/06. Cisplatin x3, IMRT x35. Mets to neck node discovered 7/07. RND 40 nodes removed, margins not clear. Cisplatin, Taxotere, 5-FU Fall 07, then IMXT/Erbitux for 7 wks. Inoperable mets to both lungs and pleura Dx Oct'08. 4 cycles Carboplatin, Erbitux, 5-FU so far.