Carol

Sleeplessness is very common with OC patients and their caregivers. You are a wonderful, loving, caring mom that any girl would love to have around. Its probably pretty tricky trying to find where you fit and and can help her right now. As a mother, we all want to shelter our children. Im sure she appreciates you more than you can see right now. Everyone is scared by this and emotions can run high.

Im positive you will be able to help others here when the time is right. At this point you already know much more than people just starting out. Dont forget, OCF is for caregiver support too. I was the patient, would have loved to have a caregiver but wasnt lucky enough for that. Dont know how I would be as the caregiver, hope Im never in that situation, its not an easy job for anyone.

Hang in there. We are here for you.


Christine
SCC 6/15/07 L chk & by L molar both Stag I, age44
2x cispltn-35 IMRT end 9/27/07
-65 lbs in 2 mo, no caregvr
Clear PET 1/08
4/4/08 recur L chk Stag I
surg 4/16/08 clr marg
215 HBO dives
3/09 teeth out, trismus
7/2/09 recur, Stg IV
8/24/09 trach, ND, mandiblctmy
3wks medicly inducd coma
2 mo xtended hospital stay, ICU & burn unit
PICC line IV antibx 8 mo
10/4/10, 2/14/11 reconst surg
OC 3x in 3 years
very happy to be alive smile