Hi Magdalena,
My case fits the description you are searching for. I am currently being treated for my second recurrence, which is in my lungs on both sides. It's not operable and they can't do radiation. I'm about to do my 4th 3-week cycle of chemo (Carboplatin, Erbitux, and 5-FU).

My inital DX was in March of 2006, a tumor on the right side of my tongue and base of the tongue. I did radiation and chemo. I had a recurrence in July 07 with a cervical lymph node positive for SCC. I had a right side radical neck dissection and then another full round of IMRT radiation.

In October 2008 it was discovered (I was having lung pain) that now I have a number of tumors in my lungs. It's not operable and radiation is not an option due to the number and location of the tumors. I'm 'only' 41 (I think that's fairly young anyhow).

So I think my case is similar to what you were searching for. Feel free to shoot me a private message or reply however you feel comfortable.
-Steve


Age 41 - Stage 2 SCC tongue Dx 2/06. Cisplatin x3, IMRT x35. Mets to neck node discovered 7/07. RND 40 nodes removed, margins not clear. Cisplatin, Taxotere, 5-FU Fall 07, then IMXT/Erbitux for 7 wks. Inoperable mets to both lungs and pleura Dx Oct'08. 4 cycles Carboplatin, Erbitux, 5-FU so far.