Me too...I finished tx on 11-4-08 and eating is hard, everything your husband feels is the same for me. I drink VHC, Juven, Ensure and Boost drinks to break up the monotony. Sweets came back so I can enjoy hot tea with honey, I'll have soups but I'm not eating a lot of solids. It's tough but every new week is better then the last. It's the way it is...recovery is very slow. I'm not worried about eating I figure that will come in time. I go for the nutrition and calories.

7-16-08 age 37@Dx, T3N0M0 SCC 4.778cm tumor, left side of oral tongue, non smoker, casual drinker, I am the 4th in my family to have H&N cancer
8-13-08 left neck dissection and 40% of tongue removed, submandibular salivary gland & 14 nodes clean, no chemo, IMRTx35
11-4-08 Recovering & feeling better