Laura-My deepest sympathy. I too believe that some good can come out of cancer when you finally realize what and who are important. I'm so glad you got to spend good time with your dad. Let those memories console you during this time.

Sue

cg to husband, 48 Stage 1V head and neck SCC. First surgery 9/07. Radiation and several rounds of chemo followed. Mets to chest and lungs. "Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass, it's about learning to dance in the rain." Went home to God on February 22, 2009.