David,

I have pushed my husband (nurse from HELL) to go back to work part time. Before treatment he was VERY active person. He was pretty active during treatment taking to the lake and fishing and doing things around the house. The fatigue just seems to be overtaking him since the chemo burn and pnemonia. His RBC is still low and he he is ordered not to eat(aspirations). So much stuff, but I am pushing him to do more. He treats me very good and loves me but he cant create energy that isnt there.

No the argument wouldn't have happened if I wasnt in this darn cancer world. She heard me talking about my husbands ENT doctor chewing my husband out because he couldnt remember the dates of a couple of procedures he had done last month. I was out of town on business and she started yelling and cussing that I should have printed out his medical history and sent it with him for his appointment. She is a good friend and very antimated....i know she ment well but walk a mile in my shoes.

So I have decided to limit my comments about my situation and maybe see a shrink!