Donna, I am so sorry your mom is still going through such challenges at a time when it sounds as if you don't have much else to give. Is there anyone else YOU can turn to for support or help? It sounds like you aren't getting enough support yourself to prop up your mom so that realy has to be the first priority-you can't give what you don't have to give and being as drained as you are doesn't do either of you any good.

Your mom i in my prayers. I know she has fought quite a battle in terms of recovering from treatment.

Nelie

Last edited by Nelie; 08-01-2008 08:06 PM.

SCC(T2N0M0) part.glossectomy & neck dissect 2/9/05 & 2/25/05.33 IMRT(66 Gy),2 Cisplatin ended 06/03/05.Stage I breast cancer treated 2/05-11/05.Surgery to remove esophageal stricture 07/06, still having dilatations to keep esophagus open.Dysphagia. "When you're going through hell, keep going"