Honestly, I gave them all what I felt they should know. Almost. Some things I felt compelled to keep to myself. I don't knkow why, I just did.
On the surface, I guess I figured I was in good hands with my surgery. I had to trust these guys right? My 2 littlest kids, though 6 & 8, weren't aware of the full scope of things.My oldest and my wife went along with what I told them.
There are still things I keep to myself about my pain, feelings, thoughts etc. that I feel I need to keep to myself.
Not a day goes by that I don't have a thought on cancer.