...by the way, when I say he has acknowledged, I mean that he has told her "thanks but no thanks", however it still has caused him some sadness, because he doesn't want to hurt her anymore than what she already is hurting. Also, he didn't marry her because she was a smoker and he couldn't stand that...now sometimes I wonder if the 2nd hand smoke had something to do with his cancer. It doesn't matter the cause now - he has cancer and we are in the fight of our life!

Paula