hi everyone,my name is Louise and my ex husband has just been dianosed with 4th stage throat cancer.It started at the base of his tongue ,moved downward to affect everything including 2 lymph nodes. they say its treatable but I do wonder if they are just glossing over how bad it really is. they do intend to start radiation and then chemo. No one is telling anyone if they have given him a certain time to live .he is very stoic and wont discuss if he is scared or what, i do want to be able to give him support and to help him if i can, any suggestions on what I can do as a friend? He is remarried.