Good to hear your dad got to talk to an actual survivor. How is the family getting along? What did yall decided to tell your dad? I've thought about you alot the past couple of days and prayed for your strenght as you support your father.

Michelle, CG to husband (45), DX 2/08 Stage IVa Adenocarcinoma Salivary Gland (T2N2bMO)
Parotidectomy & ND 2/08, Tumor margins not clear, 4 of 30 nodes positve for cancer,
TX IMRT 39x, cisplatin 7x (completed 5/1/08),
PEG (4/22 - 7/9), No port. Currently in remission!