Thank you Kate for sharing your story. This is such a stressful time for the family, the siblings are all fighting. Some kids dont want dad to know what squamous cell carcinoma is and some want to tell him the truth. He wants to know the truth. If we do say anything negative we are being screamed at. Everyone here is angry and upset and taking it out on each other. That is horrible, dad would object but of course no one is telling him because he has more important things to worry about.