Brian - thanks for the straight talk

Marina - good idea. I'm going to try that approach tomorrow.

Lois - thanks for the commiseration. I am working hard on him and hopefully I will get through that thick head of his.

I'm just going to have to be more tough with him and take the gloves off. I love him and I'm sorry he's sick, but damn if I am going to sit by quietly and let him make stupid descions that will hurt thim. That would be like letting David touch the candle flame.

Thanks to all of you!