Thank you guys very much and Jim thank you for putting it in perspective!! Today is our long day with chemo and radiation and I play to have a serious talk with him as I'm sure the docs, nurses and dietician will do as well!!!!!!

I printed these post out so I will be sure to have my "ammo" with me when we talk wink


Michelle, CG to husband (45), DX 2/08 Stage IVa Adenocarcinoma Salivary Gland (T2N2bMO)
Parotidectomy & ND 2/08, Tumor margins not clear, 4 of 30 nodes positve for cancer,
TX IMRT 39x, cisplatin 7x (completed 5/1/08),
PEG (4/22 - 7/9), No port. Currently in remission!