Lily,
As I read your post, my heart breaks for you. Seven months ago my family stood where you are standing now. I pray Scott's passing is gentle and you soon find comfort. My brother's was so simular to what you describe. From his experience I know the headache and jaw pain are more than any human should have to endure. David's never went away. I pray they find something to ease Scott's pain. Hold your girls tight, and know we are here. Please feel free to contact me, if for nothing more than someone to cry with. You will be in my thoughts more than you can ever know.
Tonya