Dear Lily and Scott,
My heart goes out to you and your family.
You will always be in my thoughts and prayers.
Just keep Scott comfortable. Hospice should help you with that. They have Ativan which dissolves in your mouth to help him relax and liquid morphine for pain that also dissolves. Don't be afraid to give it to him.
If you need to talk to someone I am here for you.
May God be with you and your family.
Michelle