Michele

It's not you, it is definitely them. AMEN to what all the prior posters have said. Your frustration and disappointment is unfortunately all too common an experience for both patients and caregivers if my experience is any guide. I used to joke that if one more person at work had told me "You're so tough and such a fighter, there won't be any problems" I would have lost it and decked them then asked "tough enuf for you?". Luckily I got so sick and weak from TX, I had to work at home. So Yes, I was plenty mad at the time. Too bad I had not discovered this forum back then. I will add you and yours to my prayer list.