The evening my mother passed, she had a good dinner and a few laughs. But when it was her time that nite, she just passed without pain. The last thing she said was,, I'm not going until all of my kids are here. She held on until my oldest brother came and said a prayer for her, Then she passed. So I would day we never really know when it's over until it happens.

Since posting this. UPMC, Pittsburgh, Oct 2011 until Jan. I averaged about 2 to 3 surgeries a week there. w Can't have jaw made as bone is deteroriating steaily that is left in jaw. Mersa is to blame. Feeding tube . Had trach for 4mos. Got it out April.
--- Passed away 5/14/14, will be greatly missed by everyone here