Thanks for all the positive vibes! We are working through this step by step and staying positive. We are laughing about things today and will be gathering as much information from the specialists at the next appointment.

I love the words from "You'll Never Walk Alone...." I also love the poem that was suggested...especially the words..."I am Master of my own fate and Captain of My Own Ship" (hope I got that right). Those words are inspiring...often how I feel about life, and it is the attitude by BF is taking, a very positive one.

I think it is most helpful that we are researching, getting 2nd opinions, going to one of the best centers for care for a complete evaluation and guidance, and visiting sites like this, where we can find information and support like this.

Thank you all! It is valued and appreciated.

Last edited by Scared but Hopeful; 01-16-2008 01:33 PM.

Best Friend of newly diagnosed SCC of tonsils. Need your help, support and prayers. Having difficult time coping. Love of my life.