Thank you Mandi, you are so right too, I have GOT to get my health together first before dealing with other issues in my life, in fact, my counselor just told me the very same thing last night......I will call you and meet up with you...thanks for the offer, Sweetie....xoxoxoxo Carol

Diagnosed May 2002 with Stage IV tongue cancer, two lymph nodes positive. Surgery to remove 1/2 tongue, neck dissection, 35 radiation treatments. 11/2007, diagnosed with cancer of soft palate, surgery 12/14/07, jaw split. 3/24/10, cancer on tongue behind flap, need petscan, surgery scheduled 4/16/10
---update passed away 8-27-11---