Hi Donna,
I'm so so sorry to hear of your reoccurance. I recently had a total glossectomy March 2nd. I finished treatment in may and I'm doing well now.
It has ben difficult but I eat most everything and my speech is coming along. It has been a VERY difficult adjustment but I am at peace with how things have turned out. I hope that mine never comes back.
Your life will get better. the important thing is that they get all of the cancer OUT and you get the neccesary treatments to make sure it never ever comes back.
Hang in there and just put one foot in front of the other. I hope you aren't in too much pain.
Feel free to PM me if you have any questions.
Kate