Donna,
You and I are walking the same road so we may as well enjoy each others company. On this thread, there are others along the road with us. Hey, let's call it the Yellow Brick Road! Ok, not so funny.
Seriously Donna, here is my outlook on it all. It is what it is. We can't change it, we can't hide from it, we have to face it squarely. It can be done, as has been proven by the many "two timers" on this board and we just have to set our minds to the fact that we will endure this and move on with our lives.
Let me know if I can help in any way.
Love,
Minnie