Amy, You always know what to say! Thank you. I have something to say. I just read a post about making a chose between Rad/Cemo or surgery. I wrote a big reply and then after thinking about it, I erased it all. I can't even advise anyone about what I concider life and death topics. Amy you always know what to say without going too far. I would say find a doctor you feel good about and trust them. That is what I'm doing and I'm still here. Tony