Hi Eric; I've had both and it wasn't until after the surgery that my rt ear started making its presence known. Like yours, mine is numb around the outside, but I do get occasional pain which darts through the inner part of the ear. Sometimes I have to adjust the way I sleep if on my rt side because the ear aches.
If your pain is something new or is causing you some concern take it to the Doc and get it checked out. I'd rather make ten "nothing" visits to get peace of mind than sit at home "dying" of curiousity.
All the best to you,
Fran