You know it is funny because sex was one of the things that my husband worried over the most before starting txs. It was a question that he wanted me to ask almost every survivor we met. Of course he wasn't going to ask.... but he wanted me to. I never did because it was really the furthest thing from my mind.

Now it doesn't really seem to matter any more. We will either be able to or not and neither of us really gives it any thought. What we do hold onto and what is important are the hugs, the hand holding, the kisses on the forehead, etc.

There are lots of other ways to show I love you when that one is not available.

Gosh I hope I am not toxic. My kids already think I am everytime I lose it. :-)

Oh and I am way beyond the child thing.... I gave up my parts last year. So that is not an issue... unless I am so toxic that I have to spit fire on them to get them to behave. (that would be a very useful talent these days....hmmmm)


Cindy