NOB,

I don't know that anyone on this site can tell you exactly what you should be doing. But, we can be here as you and your sister go through this very tough time.

Maybe for now all you can do is go to the main site and read and learn all you can so that you can be your sister's best advocate. This way you can support her in two ways. Your strength and your knowledge.

There are many of us here who wish we'd have found this place earlier in our diagnosis and treatment. I believe we all have learned to ask questions and be an advocate for ourselves. It sounds as if you may be the person who needs to do this for your sister. There is a world of information on the main site.

Good luck and we'll be here when you need to vent or ask questions.

Dinah