Dear Kristie -

Gosh, I don't even know where to begin answering this letter from you, except to say the only thing left for me, personally, was to add you and your family to my most fervent prayers for recovery SOON! My husband has surgery tomorrow for his 3rd bout with oral cancer within 4 years but all 3 were minimal, and we hope all will be "clear" following this surgery. Even tho I know that you feel like the burden of the world has been placed on your shoulders, this too shall pass, and I pray in years, your husband will be responding in here as a 10 or 20 year survivor! I also know that just WRITING it out on paper as you have done, to people who UNDERSTAND where you are and what you are going thru, provides immense release and "therapy" for you as caregiver. So if it helps, KEEP WRITING, and the lovely and tremendously helpful people in here are all behind you and your husband for a healing from this trial. God Bless, dear lady. Jane
P.S. My crystal ball is at the cleaners