Agree, Gary, I don't want to be reminded constantly that I'm living with cancer, a cancer survivor, or what have you. But, it's in people's nature I guess to be concerned. Couple of days ago I was chatting with one of the other board participants and mentioned going in to HK on Saturday. Of course they were concerned, wondering if I had a doc's appt, at I appreciate that. But, no, I didn't have a doc's appt, but needed to do some shopping, see the accountant, and get my blueberry pancake fix at a particular restaurant.

But, it reminded me of how automatically we jump to conclusions with this disease. I'd some how like to move on, but the question is how?
Bob

SCC Tongue, stage IV diagnosed Sept, 2002, 1st radical neck dissection left side in Sept, followed by RAD/Chemo. Discovered spread to right side nodes March 2003, second radical neck dissection April, followed by more RAD/Chemo.