The original poster replied to me to day and while thinking me for my time to email him but thought our terms and methods too 'parochial' for his liking. I offered to answer his questions on the phone, but have heard nothing. I hope he finds the answers he needs at some other resource. I have found in dealing with the public that you cannot please everyone, and that is not indicative that you are not trying to do good deeds and help. This thread is now closed.

Brian, stage 4 oral cancer survivor. OCF Founder and Director. The first responsibility of a leader is to define reality. The last is to say thank you. In between, the leader is a servant.