Lois,
Bill has significant hearing loss in his right ear (left works OK.) We were also faced with the decision whether to use Cisplatin or Carboplatin. I researched and asked and mulled and queried the docs and bottom line, we decided to go with Cisplatin (weekly, so not as toxic) and risk the hearing issues. Believe me, it was a tough decision, but both ENT and Primary Care docs told us that they would take the aggessive approach and worry with the side effects later, if they occurred. So, we had a choice and I do understand your worries.
All your appts this week sound so familiar. I have had to develop a notebook to keep up with business cards, receipts, notes, reports, etc. Not only are you a caregiver, you are a secretary!
Good luck with your treatment decision and the next week of appointments!
Deb