Hi Meryl,

Brian pretty much said it all. There isn't one answer that is right for everyone. But, for what it's worth, I agree completely with BC. My daughter's surgeon also said it is much easier to operate successfully before radiation. And the RAD was also very hard on my daughter. I'm sure it was much better for her to have the surgery first.

Also, just my personal opinion, but I felt better knowing the tumor was removed as soon as possible.
In my daughter's case, they operated 2 weeks after she was diagnosed. Her surgeon's normal operating day is Monday, but he booked hospital time on a Wednesday so he could get her in 5 days sooner. Again, every doctor and patient is different, but he felt it important to move fast. So, no matter which course your sister chooses, I hope it can be implemented soon.
My daughter's ordeal only started last August, but feel free to email me if you want. My daughter had the neck dissection and radiation, and I would be glad to answer any questions.

Rosemary