"Above & Beyond" Member (300+ posts) Joined: Apr 2006 Posts: 378 | Hi Donna, Hope the food got out okay and that you've enjoyed Mother's Day with your Mom and daughters.
There's no question that they have been completely insensitive to your Mom's feelings on having the surgery cancelled. That's probably because they don't experience the emotional roller coaster. They don't know what that feels like so to them it's just following procedures.
I know it's frustrating but try to let it go and focus on the next hurdle as Paul said. This week it will be about the cardiac issues, then you'll get to the cancer ones. The waiting is miserable and I feel for you. Hope you get some clarity on Monday when the cardiologist calls you.
Regards JoAnne
JoAnne - Caregiver to husband, cancer rt. tonsil, mets to soft palate, BOT, 7 lymph nodes - T3N2BM0, stage 4. Robotic assisted surgery, radical neck dissection 2/06; 30 IMTX treatments and 4 cycles of cisplatin completed June 06.
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