Bob
What you are feeling is completely normal, don`t be too hard on yourself you have just been through Hell.
Ask your wife to log in maybe we can help her get thru this sressful time. Just remember it can take a couple of weeks for the Zoloft to take effect.
Take care of yourself.
Marica

Caregiver to husband Pete, Dx 4/03 SCC Base of Tongue Stage IV. Chemo /Rad no surgery. Treatment finished 8/03. Doing great!