Hilo, I was very lucky to have siblings help out. I enjoyed different people with me. When I was alone I sometimes would carry on conversations with other patients and drew a lot of inspiration from them.When there were appointments that were important I made sure my wife was with me. But for routine treatment appointments see if others will help out. Remember there are 2 people fighting this disaease and just like a marriage sometimes you need to be together and sometimes you need a little space. I am sure you will work it out and help each other. I also am sorry that you both have to face this terrible disease but glad you found this site to help you along the way.
Alwaysd, Mark.