Jack's scan is scheduled for August 3rd and our follow up with the surgeon August 9th so we're right behind you. Our best wishes for you and Stephen tomorrow, I'll be thinking of you. I second the advice on the anti-anxiety medication and plan on using it myself in August.
Regards JoAnne

JoAnne - Caregiver to husband, cancer rt. tonsil, mets to soft palate, BOT, 7 lymph nodes - T3N2BM0, stage 4. Robotic assisted surgery, radical neck dissection 2/06; 30 IMTX treatments and 4 cycles of cisplatin completed June 06.