Deenen,

First I want to express my deep found sadness after reading your post.I am going through something similar with my father in law.He has more time than your brother but my family and will be facing what you are in a few months.

It isn't fair when you have to express all your feelings for someone in a few days,that it took a lifetime to build.I wish you and your family peace in this very difficult time.If you need to vent please feel free to email me.

God Bless You,
Patty frown

Caretaker of Joe,10/03 malignant melanoma of the tongue.
50% tongue removed,left radical neck dissection.11/03.Recurrence
to jaw and neck and multiple mets to major organs 1/2004