Thank you Mark and Patty...FOr responding to me...I went and had lunch with my mother and told her about this web site and how it has helped me and how she should also come in here. Mark, I passed on your information to her and she found it very helpful and she sais thank you. Mark, will she need to have someone with her for radiation or can she do this alone?

Patty, thank you also so much. I am praying for Joe and am sorry to hear about his condition. I responded to you via email also. If anyone has any links or web sites to refer me to, please email me. Thank you all so much. I just am so confused why the doctor would do the first surgery a year ago and say the margins were clear and not suggest radiation. And then a year later, its back. Why didnt the doctor suggest radiation a year ago after her first surgery??? What are your thoughts on that everyone?
Thanks
Stephany