Thank you all for your good wishes.I've come to the conclusion, that we're both handling it so well, because even though the cancer is all over his body he really isn't feeling ill.He is tired but is still quite functional.I'm pretty sure once this gets to the point that he is gravely ill I won't be so brave anymore. frown

Caretaker of Joe,10/03 malignant melanoma of the tongue.
50% tongue removed,left radical neck dissection.11/03.Recurrence
to jaw and neck and multiple mets to major organs 1/2004