HI MARICA/AMY/ THANK YOU FOR YOUR KIND REPLIES,IM SORRY I DIDNT EVEN INTRODUCE MYSELF PROPERLY WHEN I POSTED,IM JUST A WRECK AT THE MOMENT,I HEAR WHAT YOUR SAYING ABOUT THE STRESS PART I AM TRYING TO KEEP IT OUT OF MY MIND BY DOING SOMETHING, BUT THEN IT JUST KEEPS COMING BACK WITH MORE DREADFULL THOUGHTS.HOPE TODAY FINDS YOU ALL WELL......GOD BLESS YOU ALL.....