Rick,
I too would strongly recommend that you go to the nearest comprehensive cancer center. According to the National Cancer Center (www3.cancercenter.gov), the nearest one is Roswell Park and the contact information is:

Roswell Park Cancer Institute
Elm & Carlton Streets
Buffalo, New York 14263-0001
Tel: 716/845-5772
Fax: 716/845-8261
(Comprehensive Cancer Center)

Their web site has a page specifically on how to get a second opinion - http://www.roswellpark.org/document_4310.html.

Please don't wait. Best, Sheldon